Okay so these names have been changed, but anyways, I have a really good friend named Marie, who I've had a crush on for quite a while. She told me that this other girl, Kerry liked me. Well, in an effort to be polite I started talking to her, perhaps a little too much, and now I guess we are kinda in a relationship, when truthfully I think of her (Kerry) as more of a friend. I still do have feelings for Marie, but she's good friend with Kerry, so I am pretty much screwed out of any chance at Marie unless Kerry breaks up with me (which I can't forsee happening). I also don't really have the heart to break up with her. I've tried in the past to go after Marie to no avail. When Marie had boy problems (with someone she liked), I willingly helped her out, despite the fact that I had a huge crush on her. Marie is also extremely hard to win over and is very particular about who she likes but I am starting to see that she notices that I will pretty much do anything for her and always be there for her....I don't know what to do right now.
Note: seeing as relationship advce varies with age, I am a junior in high school, 17 years old.