I have a question about finding the right diaper for having a 45" waist. I'm 6'2", and 275 pounds. I could afford to lose about 70 to 80 pounds, and am doing so slowly but surely.
However, I am also frustrated finding a comfy diaper.
I have tried the following diapers so far in my life:
Depends Overnight Large
Attends Waistband Style Medium & Large
Molicare Super Plus Medium & Large
Tranquility ATN Medium & Large
First Quality Medium & Large
Abena Abri-Form X Plus Large
So far the best fitting diaper as far as size goes is the Depends Overnight Large, which is unfortunate as they're not the most comfortable.
My issues with all the others are the Mediums are all too small, almost painfully tight on my overweight thighs, but the Larges in all cases come up a good 5 inches above my waistline.
My personal preference with the way the diapers feel lean towards Attends Waistband, and Abena. Obviously I would love to fit in a diaper perfectly and snugly with a waistband, and leak guard liners for that extra piece of mind.
Is there such a diaper that would fit my preferences that fits me, but does not have a super tall height? It makes diapers get a bit warm around the waist to wear, and I'd imagine the diapers would last longer each session of wearing them if they fit better.
I realize the only true solution would be to keep losing weight and in the meantime, either suffer with Depends Overnight Large with low comfort and volume, or with the Attends Waistband large with no leak guards and super high waistband covering nearly my whole stomach.