This is a rant. This also has some sexual context. So, before you slap any bad rep on me for reading something you don't like...don't read it. I think it is relevant for those who think they have really bad parents. This also does not apply to everyone seeing is that all parents are different, but in light of all the parent haters here I just wanted to open some eyes.
Really though...if you don't want to read me rant...stop reading....now.
OK fine, go.
I have been a DL for a while now, actually all my life, and I have also been on these sites for a while as well, five to six years I think. Anyway, I have helped numerous amounts of kids and even adults who have DL and TB problems. I have written letters for them to give to their parents, I have told them what diaper to get, what they needed to do certain things and all that jazz and some how, in every single one of these situations, they go on to tell me how much they hate their parents, and how their parents are such idiots: I find it quite amusing and extremely sad.
I would like to make this clear to anyone who doesn't know. Being open minded goes both ways. You like everyone and everything, and are cool with it? Really? I highly doubt it, but I wont infringe on your right to believe it, so cool, good for you. But- Just because you like everything and are cool with everything and everyone, doesn't mean everyone else has to be. Open mindedness goes even further, you have to open your eyes to other peoples views. People wont see things the way that you do, that goes a lot more for your parents.
It's not all bliss though, I mean there are bad parents out there, but just because your parents don't like you wearing diapers, doesn't mean shit. Get the hell over yourself. Listen, parents like to put their children on pedestals, you are not a sick person for liking diapers, but you are out of the norm, I can tell you that. Look at it from their point of view, I know, its hard but just try, they want whats best for you, and fitting in is viewed as a good thing.
You want to be cool? You want to be different? Then why not just stop and think, because there is not much of that going on anymore. Yes, your parents will see it as bad that you want to change your religious beliefs. Yes, they will think it bad if you want to go do dangerous things. Yes, your parents will also probably think it is bad if you like diapers. AND FOR CHRIST SAKES, if you want to rebel, YES THEY WILL THINK OF IT AS A BAD THING!!!!! Looking cool is not the only thing rebelling will bring.
Wait?!?!?! WHAT?!?!?! They don't want you to be gay? HOW DARE THEY?!? Really? Who would have thought they didn't want that?!?!?! I mean, being ridiculed your whole life for being different is so great, why would any parent want to take that away from their child. And this is coming from FullMetal, a very big flamer. I mean, sure they shouldn't be kicking you out of the house (sowwy Mr. Kraiden) and they shouldn't disown you, but just as you have the right to like guys, they have the right to not like you liking guys.
It pretty much comes down to, what in the hell is wrong with you? They love you, they are looking out for you. I know, woe is me, they don't understand that I love diapers, but what?!? Hello? Who in the hell would. And even if they didn't care...why the hell are you even telling them that you like diapers? Or what the hell...why stop their, why not tell them you like to stick things up your butt because it gives you the right amount of pleasure to jack off to? Why the hell not? It is part of your life style isn't i-
Oh god how I loOOOOoooOoOove that excuse too. "I have to tell them because it is a part of who I am INSIDE!!!!" CUE THE GOD DAMN VIOLINS!!! I hate to say this, but if that's the excuse your going with you better be leaving the house telling your parents "I'll be home around nine or ten, well that is after I stick my penis in this girls vagina and try not to get her pregnant. Oh and by the way, can you water my marijuana plant. Only a little though! Don't want to kill it." Get the hell out of here.
If you don't want to make them mad, stop pissing them off! If you have a conversation and end up saying, 'My mom hates me!!!!' chances are, she loves you even more than you think. I have this long as conversation with this boy who kept on telling me his parents hate him because they don't understand that he is bad at math and get mad when he brings home a bad grade...umm, If my parents were happy with me getting a bad grade, I would call child services myself. Its normal!!!! Come on people, get real.
Anyway, to sum it all up. Your parents are looking out for whats best for you, cut them a little slack. They might irritate you and all but that's what they are supposed to do, it is mainly their job. All they want to do is watch you do well and prosper. So they don't like you in diapers? So they don't want you moving to a different country? So they don't want you to stray from their religious beliefs? Is that really so wrong? If you truly see it that way, you have to, have to have to have to have to have to....have to just check yourself. Look at it from their point of view, see if anything changes.