I keep reading these posts here (and on other websites that are ABDL related), with individuals stating that "incontinence would be the greatest thing ever", as if it is the last step of an AB or TB.
People, it's not great. At all.
So far I only have accidents, so the extent to my knowledge on this is dim. But I do know that I have had had an uncle (who wasn't an AB by any means) become incontinent after continuous treatment for colon cancer, and it wasn't a pretty site.
He had rashes. So many, in fact, that it almost drove him insane.
He had to wear diapers 24/7. Visibly no time to "air out", meaning that his nether regions were trapped full term.
He lost a significant part of his dignity. Seeing as how he no longer had control of something that it seems too many AB's/TB's are taking for granted.
And he was miserable.
He later had to be put on this bag thing, but I'm not going to get into that....
I will most likely become incontinent by the time I'm 40, because of a disease that effects my kidneys et bladder. Something that I have had since birth, that my Urologist can do little to help me with. I'm interested in diapers, sure. But I do not want to be bound to them...
So, it's really not something that others should look for, unless they understand the consequences.
To each his/her own, I suppose.