Were you adopted? I mean really put up for adoption as a baby.
I've had AB/DL fantasies since I was at least 7 years old and am now almost 60. However, I've only been active in acting out my fantasies for the last 5 years or so. I've met a lot of AB/DL people in my explorations. I tend to hit them from left field by asking "Were you adopted?"
Oddly, more than 40% of the AB/DL people that I have come into contact with were adopted as infants.
Maybe that is an odd sampling of this community. But I do suspect there are a LOT of members of this community that were adopted as infants. More than you will find in the population in general (less that 5% in the general population). So I have a theory that there are quite a few of us that were adopted as infants that had a sort of traumatic interrupted infancy that created a desire to go back and re-do or complete that infancy stage.
Anyway, I'm just curious how many out there may have been adopted as infants. Please do post replys with your comments and thoughts. Thanks!