Often, when it comes to fantasies, the fantasy itself can be so much sweeter than the reality.
While mowing down hordes of zombies with a chainsaw may make a great fantasy, chances are I'd more likely be running away from them instead.
While running over cops with a stolen tank makes a great fantasy, I think I'd pass on actually carrying that out.
Hell, even something like telling a rude clerk that he is acting like a real cunt to his face makes a decent fantasy, but actually carrying out that is socially unacceptable, and for good reason.
And I have had some sexual fantasies before that completely defied logic and physics - in those cases, the fantasy is far better than reality.
I think that people who come on this part of the board hoping that they are becoming IC, or looking for ways to become IC, need to look at those fantasies in exactly the same light.
I have no problem with people writing fap fantasy stories surrounding it. But there is a time and a place for such things, and I really don't think that the people who come to this part of the board with messages like, "I really hope this (insert minor detail here) is a sign I'm losing control" is all that appropriate.
I'm not IC myself, nor do I really want to be. I have had leakage problems before, that were relatively minor, but it was enough to convince me that fantasies surrounding this are often much better off remaining fantasies. The fantasies most often don't factor in the harsh realities, after all.
Just thoght I'd throw my half-cent worth here. To those who are actually coping with the real problem, no disrespect is intended. I used to be one of those people who often wondered about how it would be like to be IC - now, I don't even want to consider it.
EDIT - I really don't have violent fantasies, unless playing video games with that content qualifies. Just thought I'd clarify that to make this post look less creepy.