Well, i got a message from the MOD, who informed me that i became a lurker. this was not my intention. Actually, I just got a new computer and had to reload all my sites. when i got back, i forgot my password.
I do apologize now.
i have been incontinent now for over years, both urinary and fecal. I have learned to deal with it very well, and it seems the longer i have it, the easier it is to take care of it on a daily basis.
Have a great day everyone.