This brings up a whole slew of issues. For one, my 11 year old nephew already has serious problems in school (they're ready to boot him) and my sister and her husband have major parenting issues (read: they have major trouble with it). On top of all this, I've recently observed infantalist behaviors in him, leading me to believe he could be a TB/AB one day.
Exhibit A. Four years ago, while my sisters family was visiting us, she caught him wearing his younger brothers pull-ups. She knows I wear diapers and have AB-like tendencies and I briefly spoke to her about this incident. We agreed that it was an isolated incident, but we have not spoken about it since.
Exhibit B. Last week, while visiting them during the holiday, I watched him go crazy over a bottle of water that to him resembled a baby bottle. He kept saying he liked it because it reminded him of a baby bottle and sucking on it like mad.
There have been a few other minor incidents where he has mentioned the word "diaper" in a dramatic way, and, of course, I noticed because I'm ultra-sensitive to that word. Maybe I'm being over-the-top here?
He acts very young for his age (as do all my sisters boys) and he's already got some high hurdles to jump over. I didn't choose to be a incontinent, diaper wearing, infantalist and I certainly don't wish it on anyone else. Not that it's the end of the world, it's just another issue that most of us have had to grappled with. He has so many other problems right now that it's probably way too much to bring this up, but if he actually is an infantalist, it would be the first generational example in my family (there are many incontinent and diaper wearing examples in my family due to inherited disorders, but to my knowledge no other AB's).