I'm DL and my wife hasn't been too keen on the whole DL thing since she found out two years ago but has mostly been tolerant of my diaper tendencies. She always hated doing anything sexually related when I was in diapers & the times she did she made it clear she didn't like it. I've tried not to push my luck because the last thing I want is to receive an ultimatum.
We went on a weekend getaway recently and I wouldn't normally bring diapers with me but I figured why not, I usually wear on the weekends anyway. I'm not sure what changed but she initiated sexual contact on 3 different occasions knowing I was diapered and happily followed through. I made sure she knew I was grateful and continued to be content with our situation without pushing my luck.
The other night I had a dream that she was trying to get my attention and put on a diaper and a skirt that was short enough for me to see it clearly and of course it worked. Well I told her about it but I didn't get a reaction one way or another. Today she woke me up early wanting to go shopping meaning I would have to stay home with our three children all under 2 years old. I told her I didn't mind but she'd owe me one and suggested she let me diaper her figuring I'd get a sharp no. Instead she responded with a quick, sure & asked if I wanted her to wear the skirt too. I thought she was joking but she said she'd do it cause she loved me so much and so I promised to let her pick the diaper. I'm very excited and can hardly wait till she gets home.