Hi all, i have been a part of this community for a long time now. I don't contribute a lot, however i have noticed something over a long period of time readin posts.
I find abdls to be pretty judgmental. It strikes me as odd because we all want to be accepted for who we are and yet there are so many times when people are judged even on this forum.
For example, the people here who want or choose to be 24/7 vs those that don't have a choice. A few incons have said they are offended by others wanting to be incon or bedwetters but i just cannot understand why! In my mind, someone else's lifestyle choice impacts only them and their friends/family, not you. If you don't like a post about someone wanting to be 24/7, why judge them and make them feel bad about it? Just move on and ignore the post if you don't like it.
Its just one recent example, there are others that i can't think of but i know i've been thinking this for a long time.
Im not trying to offend anyone with this post i just think its odd that we judge others so harshly sometimes.
Do you think our community is judgmental as a whole or is it individuals who take things too personally or are not open minded?
Or am i just way off here and thinking too much over a few rogue posts? Thanks for your time i look forward to a healthy and provocative discussion!
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