Do you wear for fun, Wetting and/or messing or for comfort.
Some people shop looks while others shop absorbency. If you just like to wear but don't like to use and/or you like crinkle with out bulk then i would suggest depends.
absorbency wise would be bambinos or abena. if you wear at night for bed wetting (at least if you move a lot) then i would suggest cloth and plastic pants as well as for home use to keep cost down.