I've been reading these forums for a few months now. Due to the restrictions on "lurkers" (which took me two accounts to understand... sorry), I am now forced to write an introduction message.
In general, I am a very secretive person, which makes me feel like this is "pressuring" me to do something I otherwise would not do. A few other things of interest:
-I'm in my early twenties.
-I'm asexual in nature with very few exceptions. I am not interested in sex. I am, however, interested in having a woman who cares about me and vise versa.
-I wear for purely comfort purposes, as well as the added benefits of the whole 'bathroom anywhere' deal.
-I find even the mention of "messing" disgusting. Everything about it just completely disgusts me. In other words, I don't do it.
-I have been reading these forums to gain insight into the pyschological aspects of this interesting fetish. While I cannot truly share it, I guess I consider myself a DL, but without any of the sexual desires that accompany it.
I'd prefer not to divulge into anything else in my personal life. Going back to the secretive thing, I feel that the above information properly sums me up.