I was thinking about this while I was at work and while I was thinking about the recent drama that I inadvertantly caused. I was thinking since there has been so much negativity in the AB community because of sites like D*****, Yior, and so forth. Positive ideas, positive communites such as ADISC need to be focused on rather than the negative ones.
I am not talking about having us try to become more public or whatever with our lifestyle, but a way of finding some way of being more positive about the lifestyle without drawing attention. There has been too much attention on AB that is NOT needed.
I am talking about building a community that works on positive ideas, and not negative ones, and ones that would keep an eye on sites that are bad for our image and if something goes wrong, report it to the proper authorities.
We need to be a positive community. Work as a group, try to find ways to make connections with people without worrying about if others have their own ulterior motives such as The Diaper SuperStore, D*****, and so forth... the list can go on. At least the worst of the offenders is history and behind bars, meaning Yior.
We need to find a way to police those who need to be policed, and watched. Those that can open a can of worms that we do not need opened nor that we want.
ADISC already does that, providing a safe haven where horny net geeks are not welcome, nor are fappers and idiots with the brains of a cockroach. A place people can feel open, discuss the lifestyle and other matters of life outside of diapers and the community. That is what I like about ADISC. We need to find more places like that, or form a community where we stand against sites like D*****, The Diaper SuperStore, Yior, and so forth. Let them know their kinds are NOT WELCOME.
I also was thinking, is there a way we can censor a certain name like another site already does, by making it appear as something like [That Site] instead of it's name. That one place I am thinking of needs to be censored as a way to not attract certain elements. I think censoring that name is a good start.
Positivity is something that is needed in this lifestyle. We have had far too much negativity cause of stupid idiots getting into the news, going too far or pulling off the all-time AB blunder- Heidi Lynn, the AB who went around Phoenix in public as an AB. Some saw that idiot as a trailblazer or hero, me I saw it as a sad thing, someone who gave up a lot of positive things just for diapers.
Hell, if I had been a college pitcher with a good arm, I would have tossed the damn diapers and gone pro. Heidi Lynn did not do that. He threw his talents away for diapers. A chance to pitch pro ball... I STILL drool over that even though I can't play baseball anymore but was looked at once. I'd have given up the diapers JUST for the chance to play at Wrigley Field, Fenway Park, Yankee Stadium, Tiger Stadium, Cleveland Municipal Stadium, and so forth.
It's time, folks, we worked at building a world where we can be who we are, without idiots making us look bad. I am not talking about wearing your diapers in public, but showing that we support doing the right thing, supporting law & order, making sure that those who do harm kids, who get off on that crap get what they deserve- jail time and a human booster shot from an inmate named Molly.
We as ABs, need to realize, enough is ENOUGH! There has been too many weirdos, people giving us bad press, sites that make us want to vomit, sites that deserve a nice police raid and so forth.
We need to be positive about things, and look at ways of preventing things that would make us look bad and give us a bad name.