When i say one for me, i mean like a girlfriend(or boyfirend if there is a good one). I live in a family where both my siblings have a girl and boy friend, and one of them is 11. But sometimes i think I should be trying to find someone. But I don't really like flirting becuse it's just not in my nature. So what I am saying is should I be trying to flurt or is there a better solution? I don't know I think it's just me being jelous that made me wanna ask.