I have a bit of a situation that's been bothering me moreso recently and I was hoping people with experience could possibly give me a hand in figuring this out.
I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years. We get along great; ending each other's sentences, going out on dates, walks in the park and whatnot. She lives in another city due to school and so during the summer, I tend to leave my city and go to hers to live with her.
I came out to her as a DL 6 months into the relationship and she took it well. Since then I've been padded around her and she hasn't minded in any way, so long as I clean up. Recently, I've gotten into DL side a bit more than usual and feel as though she may be passively upset by it.
It seems that the moment I pad up at night, she'll become quiet and try to fall asleep as quickly as possible. Tonight I asked her if my wearing was upsetting her to which she told me no. After a bit of talking I managed to open her up to say that she felt that I become more quiet /disconnect from her (?) when I pad up. Well once I did pad up tonight she proceeded to fall asleep, halfway through a movie. I called her on it and asked her why she was doing the exact thing she claimed I was doing and she said to me that "I jump to conclusions".
I'm just not sure what to think. Maybe I'm just looking too much into this, but I've told her several times that "this is a part of the package deal" and that I can't remove this part of me. I'm just afraid that maybe now this is starting to set in.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.