Hello. After more than seven years of binging and purging with this abdl stuff, have finally been able to accept that this is who I am. This is part of me! Not to mention that it is unlikely to go away. Therefore I think I should just enjoy it. Being a university student has helped as I have been away from home. This has allowed me to do more and not hide stuff to much. So, for all of you ab/tb's on here struggling with acceptance, I am sure you will find peace some day, probably when you leave home (should you still be at home)!