A while back I was on here talking about how I had a feeling that my roommate might've snooped through my closet, and consequently my stash, when I had moved into my place last September.
I first thought she was onto me when she joked / dropped a few hints about diapers (walking through grocery aisle for care products: "Are you good for diapers?") Well...
I confronted her about it a few months ago during a night of drunken debauchery over a meal at a restaurant. I pretty much just asked her out of the blue if she had ever went through my things. She assured me she hadn't but was really curious as to why I was so serious. From there I told her "If I tell you, this goes with you to the grave, ok?".
She was sort of shocked but she recovered pretty fast. It wasn't exactly what she expected but she's somewhat familiar with the fetish scene so it wasn't totally out of the blue. Since then, it hasn't really ever been brought up but she's fine with it; we just don't talk about sex in general.
So that makes two people I've told so far, the other being my girlfriend (who is reading over my shoulder).
In any case, just thought I'd share that with you guys. Hope the next time you accidentally out yourself, it goes as smoothly as it did for me.