Hi, all, we just got back from riding Amtrak back east and had a great time. My wife insisted that I wear diapers at nighttime on the trip (she doesn't trust me anymore without a diaper at nighttime), and since I use cloth diapers at home, we ordered a case of Abenas M4 X-Plus and they worked wonderful! Not a single leak. We brought along Zip-lock bags which I would put the diaper into each morning, and then put that into a plastic Wal-Mart bag, so nobody saw anything about the diapers either on the train or at our relatives home. Those Abenas are one great diaper!! But at home I still like my cloth diapers and plastic pants.
Remember I told about seeing my 6 y/o grandson stealing a diaper before we left on vacation? Well neither I nor my wife told our daughter (his mother)about it before we left. Yesterday our daughter came over to welcome us back and I saw her having a serious talk with my wife while I was doing something else. After she left, my wife told me that their family had gone to visit another family with small kids last week. Right before leaving, the host mother found my grandson in the babies room trying to put a diaper down his pants. My daughter was very embarrassed, not to mention how my grandson was. My daughter said that she wasn't prepared to talk about it when they got home, so she just let him go to bed. Well the next day, after he had gone to school, she went through his room and found a bunch of diapers, of various sizes, hidden in his closet. After he got home, she showed him the diapers she had found, and he started to cry as she talked to him. His only comment was that he liked how they feel in his underwear at night, and admitted that he would even wet them sometimes (she wondered why there would be stains in the bed sometimes when she changed his bed, because he didn't know how to fashen the tabs or most of the diapers are to small for him to not leak when he wet them).
She took all the diapers away, and he looked very sad about it. She doesn't know what to do. She is afraid to take him anyplace now for fear of him stealing diapers again (even church because she thinks that is where he got most of them, even a cloth diaper). She asked my wife for advice and she said she would talk it over with me and get back to her. What should we tell her? She doesn't know about me being diapered nightly, and we don't want to tell her about it. Any advice would be helpful.