I'm a 45 year old incontinent girl due to a issue in my brain that affects bladder control. I was punished for wetting and messing as a child, and eventually was able to hide the issue somewhat buy using baby diapers and pads in my pants. My parents always thought I would wet and mess myself on purpose. The problem in my brain affects pressure on the nerve which controls the bladder, and wasn't discovered until just a few years ago. I've since grown to love my diapers. I wear diapers and plastic pants 24x7.