So today I was talking to a friend of mine and in conversation I told him I was having problems peeing again... like i go from filling up and spontaneously letting go since I didn't feel it and filling up and not being able to go at all. He was telling me that I might be able to get my sphincters stinted open. I'm in diapers all the time any way since I dont know when im going to pee or leak but i know when urine backs up into the kidneys it can cause damage (i feel pressure and pain in my back when it happens) this might be a better option. The only thing is is that I dont even know if its a legitimate procedure or if any urologist would even do it. I no longer have one... and haven't for a while. The one I had was very put off by my wearing diapers to manage my issues and refusal to use drug therapy.
Just not sure what course i should take here.