Well, as some of you know, I hung out with a girl for the first time ever almost 3 weeks ago. What concerns me though is that after I did this "normal" teenage ritual, I began to crave more interaction and communication with this girl. Nothing sexual at all, just a strong strong desire to talk to her and hang out with her again. so, last weekend I ended up texting her, leaving her a voice mail, and messaging her on facebook asking if she wanted to do anything with me, I got no response. This concerned me a bit, b/c it seems that that act was a bit extreme and has the potential to turn obsessive(which has happened in the past with me).
I do this every time I start to progress with a female, which has been 10 times, roughly. We start to communicate and connect normally, then I end up doing something wrong. The best that I could theorize is that I start to acknowledge that there is progress being made, then I essentially "blitzkrieg" onto them, trying to make a deep relationship out of something that is not capable of sustaining a deep relationship. This type of behavior leads to the eventual fall of the friendship.
To me it seems like connection between the female and myself is like heroin, once I get a small taste of it, I crave it like a mad man! This doesn't GREATLY concern me, like it doesn't keep me up at night, but it is something I think about.
What I am asking of this community is, Does this situation that I(briefly) described to you sound like obsessive behavior? Does it have the potential to become obsessive? Why does this happen? and, has anyone/does anyone else feel or act this way?