FOR INCONS: how much actual control DO you have? In other words, besides the unwanted wetting, can you still sit on a toilet and 'pee intentionally'?
** Personally I have very limited control over this but can manage some. Usually tho right after i stand up there is some more that comes out or I end up going a few mins later anyway.
For anyone else: this thread is very likely to have graphic comments made but due to the nature of the topic.