In the past two months my diaper love/adult baby activities has taken a new turn for the better. I recently got a pacifier (actually just got my second one this week). I like the new one I got a lot more then my first one - it is a rubber Nuk 3 (18m+). I like that is actually falls out of my mouth during bedtime as it has a fatter base.
I find myself using regular Depends Maximum Diapers 24/7 and not wearing pull ups anymore (at least not everyday - maybe once a week). I am not even wearing underwear over the diapers and got to the point that I really do not care if others know I am an adult baby/diaper lover.
I have switched from Desitin to Butt Paste and like the smell.
I am close to buying a swim diaper for when I go swimming this summer. They look really cool and will allow me to wear a diaper when I go to the beach or just swim laps at the gym!
I also started using a baby bottle at least once a day and love the Breastflow by The First Year. It holds 11oz (label says 9oz however there is room) meal replacement drinks which are prefect for at night as I often skip dinner as I get home late and do not want to eat right at bedtime. I sometimes use it for a meal replacement drink at lunch and/or morning.
I no longer have issues with number two incidents as I did at the end of last year when I had a real accident and have accepted that it is okay.
Again thanks to everyone here for helping me fully accept who I am and please post any other ideas, suggestions, thoughts that you feel can help me as I grow in being an adult baby.