Well I found this site because I am looking for answers. I am currently 21 and have been a DL for quite sometime now. I've been off and on about the whole deal. When I was younger I really enjoyed the feeling I got when wearing them. Around age 7-10 I was still wearing them for whatever reason. I then stopped wearing them and was "good" for quite sometime however its been an off and on ordeal. I really enjoy them but I am not sure why. Maybe its just a comfort thing. Anyway, as I said, I'm 21 years old and enjoy the arts. I have a girlfriend but am not sure about how to tell her about my "little secret." I do plan on telling her at some point but am just not sure how and not sure if I'm ready. But Thats just a little about me. I know its not much but I'm trying to get there.