So here's something I've been wondering about for long time. How do you see ABDL and LGBTQ (or LGBT/GLBT, if that's how you call it) identities overlap? I'm not talking about being gay and also being an ABDL. What I really have in mind are the last two parts of the acronym, the T (transgender) and the Q (Queer). It seems to me like for some people, it isn't just happenstance that they are transgender or queer AND an ABDL, but sometimes the two are melded together. Having a transgender or queer identity is integrally bound with an adult baby or diaper lover identity in such a case.
To use myself as example: diapers and regression are jointly a part of demasculinization and submission. They bring me both into a world of androgyny, which qualifies as gender variance, and a world of BDSM, which is often regarded as falling under the umbrella of queer sexuality.
I know very little about sissies, but I could see that as also embodying a kind of transgender identity (but I could be totally off on that point).
Another question is, do you think that those of us for whom being ABDL is sexual can justifiably call that a kind of queer sexuality and therefore identify as LGBTQ?
I do think, though, that the ABDL community, in part due to its comparatively low profile, faces very different from the LGBTQ community, so I don't know -- it might be somewhat misleading to "jump on the queer bandwagon" so to speak, as if we get nearly as much flack as other people on account of our sexuality.