Sorry I'm a bit late in posting an intro. but here goes. I've been a tb/ab/dl for as long as I can remember. maybe because I started life in an adoption orphanage and you can imagine how well that toilet training went. Anyway, I found the site on Deeker Adult links during a discovery crises and here I am. I am a degreed musician, play in a cover band on weekends, have a day job and another job, also in music. I stay busy, so my participation may be erratic. playing music is my biggest interest, and the band is very successful. We've played for over 20,000 people at a single gig. I'm also into computer technology, and enjoy Xbox. Though I have only been on this site for three weeks, it has really become somewhat of a home, and provided a lot of support at a time in my life when I needed it. I have really enjoyed the contributors, and am very impressed with the maturity of the responses, as well as the humor. It's nice to know you're not alone.