I'm sure this has been posted multiple times on the boards, and each one had its own little varying 'way' of asking the same question over and over. Well, here's my 'way' of asking the question.
About two nights ago, while I was chatting on the phone with my boyfriend, we started touching into topics that naturally I shy away from. I had been vividly stressed while on the phone; I had pulled a 12-hour shift at work, was currently PMSing, and hadn't slept in almost 36 hours straight. To me, that's alot on my plate. He caught on pretty quick that I wasn't in the mood to talk for five hours on the phone, so we did the normal routine of him talking me to sleep, like always. Unfortunately, the standard ways to get me to snooze wasn't really functioning.
Somewhere down the line, he mentioned that I knew a few other ways up my sleeve to get me to sleep, and once again he tried to probe for the information out of me. Naturally, the first thing that came to mind for me was my pacifier, but seeing as he didn't know about my more perverse side of this so-called 'fetish', I didn't mention it... for all of about 5 minutes. I ended up warning him in advance that what I was about to tell him was something that wasn't normal by any form of social standard, and that he might even freak out over it. When he asked me what was up, I told him that, well, I have child-like tendencies, and some of them included things like pacifiers, bottles, the whole cuddling aspect, the whole nine yards I pretty much spilled onto him.
To my utter relief, he didn't freak out, he didn't call me weird, or anything insulting. He actually was curious. He asked me questions since I was too afraid to say everything out-loud and outright, and then went as far as to call me cute and said he accepted it and wanted to be on board with me on it. I damn near died. I just told a grown man I'd only been dating for 2 months that I enjoyed behaving like a child and he accepted it, on the spot. Uh, holy crap.
I'll cut out the rest of that night and the whole cute crap that took place after it, because I'm sure to most that it would be called fapping material, and that isn't what I'm trying to get out in this post here.
Anyway, earlier today, he decided to start looking up some of this stuff online, and, well, he found the more 'grotesque' part of it. I'm talking the whole 'punishment basis' stuff and hardcore sexual fetish about it, none of which I am of, and please don't take offense to it if you are, I just don't like it. To me the whole regression thing is more about stress-relief and simply a good way to enjoy carefree fun, so to speak. Since I myself am still fairly new into this whole thing, and only know a few basics, I was kind of hoping someone wouldn't mind sharing a few links to help so I could link them to him and let him read it. I only ask for the links because I'm too much of a chicken to tell him all of this on the phone. ><
But yeah, I do have the Understanding Infantilism link, but the website is under construction at the moment, and that was pretty much my only link to giving him. Does anyone know of any other sights to let me a hand with here?