I am a 37 year old male, I have been bed wetter for the last 3 plus years and about 6 months ago I started having day time issues. It started with noticing damp/yellow stains on my underwear. It got progressively worse to the point that I basically have bladder spasms if I don't make it to restroom in time. I have very little warning before such episodes. I have a active lifestyle and am finding myself not doing a lot of the things i used to enjoy out of fear that my friends will find out. I am a cop and have been for the last 12 years. I make sure I use the restroom every chance I get and have resorted to using pull ups when on duty. so far I have gotten away with it. My issue its that I enjoy hunting, fishing and other outdoor activities with my partners and friends. I have not done any o f these things since this has started. Luckily I have a very lovely and beautiful wife who is very understanding and supportive. It just bothers me how much this is affecting my lifestyle, I am not doing any of the things I used to out of ear of being found out. I have been to the urologist and had all the tests done ( Urodynamics , ultrasounds and had a camera run up into my bladder) and all he tells me is that it is related to my sleep disorder ( sleep apena) and that is weakening my bladder. I was wondering how everyone else deals with these changes and their activities.