I was snooping around the interwebs, when I found this:
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It states that, "...in women, moderate and severe bother [from incontinence] have a prevalence ranging from about 3% to 17%..." and, "...in men, the prevalence of incontinence is...about 3% to 11% overall..."
Forgive me if this has been posted hundreds of times before, but I thought you might want to look at the statistics on a government website as opposed to the usual internet health sites, with their corresponding factualities.
Do these seem realistic to you?