I am not as new to my IC as the name suggests, but I have used similar names on other boards, so I kept it here. Yes, I have bouts of incontinence- enough that I wear diapers most of the time. I just don't trust my bladder- especially in the winter. Or when I travel. Or first thing in the morning. Or after dinner... You get the idea.
Anyhow, I travel alot, and have weekly "experiences" with security people at various airports around the world. Keeping a few extra diapers in my briefcase helps when they get huffy about my tube of diaper cream. Usually, they get more embarrased than I. I'm happily married, raising two great preteens and enjoying life.
Handicapped? No- I just have different undies than most.