I have wet the bed since I was 15, apparently as a result of a neurological condition. I am dry during the day.
I wear diapers because I have to, not because I want to. On the other hand, wearing diapers at night doesn't bother me. It's better than waking up to a wet bed.
I am married. My bedwetting does not bother my wife, as diapers control almost all the consequences. (My snoring bothers her more.) A few times a year a diaper leaks badly enough to require a change of bedding.
I wet very heavily. I generally use a Molicare or Abena X-plus in a stretch pant, covered with a plastic pant.
I signed up here for the useful information and to provide information from my experience to others who are real bedwetters.