Well my friend just broke up with her boyfriend. And so far, I kind of like it, for the past 2 days I have talked to her 4 times. That used to be my total out put for the week (M-F) Now I am outputting that in just 2 days. The way I have been analyzing it, I will be outputting conversation with her at an increased 300% a week, which I love.
But my delemia here is this, I only thought this once, what I thought to myself was "I sort of like this, I can talk to her a lot more now). Trust me, I like nothing more than to see her happy, which in the past I have given up talking to her on a daily basis, just so she could talk to him(this would occur when I saw him approaching her, I would either not say anything to her, or just be like "never mind, I'll tell you later).
So, is it barbaric of me to like her not having a BF, so I can benefit from it? Essentially I thought of it as me capitalizing on others misfortune and sorrow. I am a capitalist and in the business world I love to capitalize on sorrow, but for a friend, I just thought of myself as a monster for liking that.
Am I barbaric for liking that?