The "Diapered with kids" thread is very productive thread and kudos to everyone who posted. This is one of the biggest questions in my mind currently. Having a very serious girlfriend, the possibility of marriage and kids is high. And I wonder a lot about this question. Just what will happen to my peculiar desires.
I didn't want to create a new thread when I told my girlfriend because "I Told..." threads are a dime a dozen. But I did tell my gf about a month ago. And it didn't go as well as I'd hoped. No fairy tale there. Her biggest concern she voiced was, "geez, what if we have kids, I'm not sure if I'm going to want you around them and their diapers..." And I completely understand where she is coming from.
So, my question: Has anyone ever told a gf or wife (and heck, a bf too I guess if y'all were planning on adopting kids or had them from a previous relationship) and it didn't go well, they weren't "supportive"...how did you handle it? Where you able to come to an agreement? Compromise? Did you just sweep it under the rug and forget about it? That seems to be the approach my gf wants to take. We haven't talked about it since that night and, even though I want to, I'm afraid to bring it up. But I know I need to. So I'm seeking advice on how to proceed. I'm half temped to print off the "Diapered with kids" thread and let her read it.
Any thoughts would be appreciated.