I've been a DL for about eight years now, and have just never gotten invoved in a community. I've been contemplating more and more often attempting to become fully incontinent, but the jump is more difficult than just staying recreational (not to mention more expensive!). I am also a service member; that makes things considerably more difficult. Maybe others are in my plight; if so I hope to hear from them. If not I hope to learn a lot anyways, and hopefully make some aquaintences that share this unique interest. Outside of that, I love hi-fi, cars, wine/spirits, and fine dining. That's the basics.