To all the lovely ladies and their partners on this forum: might I have some advice on finding a well-fitting diaper? I've done a thread search, and 1) most of the discussions I've found have been about male sizing, and 2) most of the sizes I've seen discussed haven't been consistent with my measurements. I'm a bit concerned about how well my girly derriere is going to fit into the standard model. My explorations with diapers have been chiefly stuff I've made at home, and I've been hoping to move into something a bit more conventional (and hopefully more comfortable!).
My waist and hip measurements are 28/39 (in inches), and my thighs are 21 inches at the top. Most of the adult diaper sizes I've seen start a bit larger than this, but I'm not sure how high the waistband goes, or how much hip space is allowed (that is, should my "waist" be lower on the hips than I'm likely to be measuring?). I've noticed that a lot of diapers only specify waist size, thigh measurement, and/or overall weight. I'm concerned about leakage with the waist/hip difference, and I'm not sure how much stretch tends to be present. I'm fairly muscley (I lift weights pretty seriously), so there's not a lot of "squish" factor around my thighs and hips, making sizing potentially more of an issue than it would be otherwise. Would I be better off going for cloth diapers? Or can anyone recommend me a brand or model that's more consistent with my sort of shape? Thanks so much!