I know this has been discussed before, but the ones I found are all closed. Besides I may add some fresh things.
So the question is:
How well does your *B/DL side match up with who you are?
In essence, is it really just a thing, or actually an expression of a fundamental aspect of your personality.
I'm half expecting *Bs to say it's more a part of them and DLs to say it's just a thing, such as any other interest; but what do I know, that assumption may be completely incorrect.
For me I'd say it's quite an accurate reflection of who I feel. I'd consider myself to act maturely and grown up most of the time, but there's always been a want to mess around, keep playing, and generally act immaturely for a bit. On top of that I've always felt behind my peers in the sense of growing up. I don't go to parties or go chasing girlfriends all the time, in a way it feels that I'm subconsciously trying to maintain my innocence.
Lastly, not sure if it's relevant or not (I'll let you decide that one), I get on with kids very well, it seems I'm rather playful at heart and can understand what it is they want.
So, a similar thing from you if you please, or alternatively which features of personality you think are relevant or not - which may turn out to be the more interesting discussion.