Like most people, I was very self conscious when I first started wearing a diaper during the day... and having to change myself in a bathroom was a worry for me too. But after a while, it all became second nature, and most of the time now I forget I'm even diapered. I wear at the gym under my shorts while working out, and I really don't worry anymore if I look at all puffy. (As if anyone really looks or would notice anyway, right?) And if I need to change myself in a stall, it's OK. I mean... it's not that I WANT people to see that I'm diapered... I just think: "Hey, this is a fact of life for me, and I'm not ashamed anymore."
Who's with me? Have you had the same path from self-consciousness to acceptance as well?