If you found out one of your friends is *B/DL or met someone who is openly (or you someone find out, IE they bend over or you see *B/DL supplies in their bag), would you tell them, ask them about their story first, or would you just let it slide?
Alternatively, what if you were the person on the other side? What if a friend or an acquaintence found out that you were *B/DL and confronted you about it, especially if they confronted you because theyre *B/DL also?
Sorry if theres one of these already, but I was reading someone elses thread and go to thinking, "Wow, Id like to meet someone else whos *B/DL, or at least someone who accepts it so I have someone to talk to." Heh, Id be suspicious at first, then Id be all happy once I was sure they werent just prying so they could tell everyone.