Well, usually I wear TENA SLIP Maxi at night (sometimes Super) - in the Size M (Medium).
They're the most comfortable and best absorbent diapers I've tried and fit me like a "glove".
However during daytime (I'm only a bedwetter, but do have a bit of a weak bladder, and usually wear diapers whenever I have to travel for a longer time by Car / bus / train or fly - or basically anywhere where I will quite possible fall asleep for some time).
Also the diapers like Tena Slip are "noisy" when changing (sticky tape - plastic cover)... whilst in public this is of no concern to me (I don't give a Sh*t) it is of some concern when I have guests staying with me at my flat for some days (had this recently)...
I don't want my friends or relatives to know that I wet the bed... but the flat is a bit of a "Loft -style" thing as it has only one (though huge) room and a bathroom & shower room - it's an "open living space" thing, quite nice. but not overly "private" - so the only place where I can change into my diapers privately is the bathroom or shower - but it's really not "soundproof" either.
so rustling diapers is a bit of a bad thing in that situation.
For these reasons I tried Pants / Pull Up style diapers.
The first were the TENA Pants in Super, size M.
The fit was ok - only in the front area the "pad" was a tad short and narrow I thought.
They leak - no matter if standing, sitting or whilst sleeping - they leak inside at the leg-holes... leak badly.
I've tried Molicare Mobile (size M) is the most absorbent style.
A tad better than the Tena pants - but still leaky.
I've tried AbriForm Pants... with simillar results.
and some no name things from a local store - with even worse results.
I'm a bit stunned by the fact that a real diaper such as the Tena slip Maxi or Super (or even the thin "plus" diaper) will not leak at all usually and the pants seem just not to work at all.
Is there anything special to them I need to do? or are they just built for people who dribble slight amounts of urine occasionally...
I'm standing 6" tall, and weigh 80kg (175 pounds) - quite wide shoulders, heavy arms and sturdy legs (boxing for as long as I do brings that with it...)...
Besides I hate things with childrens-prints on it... (I have hated these things even as a child... I never wanted to feel "childish")
or what "discrete" but well working products can you recommend (bedwetting)??
Oh and before someones mentions "GoodNights" or "Depends"...
Forget it - i don't fit into those anymore - and back in my teens when I did they didn't work very well and leaked constantly.