Okay, firstly, I really do not come to this forum often anymore, so I'm pretty sure that 99% of all of you have no idea who I am, but I do remember this being the place to go to, to ask the kinds of question that you don't really ask people in general, and as long as you posted in a mature manner and weren't a complete pedophile, nobody would really judge you for it.
So... I have a very interesting probelm. Over... well the past two years or so, it seems I've began to seriously start losing my sex drive. Well. Let me rephrase that, kind of. It's more like I basically get hardly any of the stimulation I used to get from masturbating, yet my body still has the urges to do it quite often, and a lot of the time it's still really hard to arouse myself, even if I'm thinking about what in my mind's opinion is the most arousing kind. On top of that, I can barely get anything from sexual circumstances unless I'm masturbating and have the fantasies in my head. Yet say, for instance, if I'm having phone sex, even if the subject of sex is what turns me on the most, it doesn't do much for me at all, and requires a ridiculous amount of effort to even get an orgasm. Pretty much, I hardly feel anything. When I see something in everyday life, like an attractive body, that used to just arouse me on the spot, I barely even notice it, and my brain is just like "yeah, okay, DD's. Whatever, boring"
And when this first started I was scared that I would lose my sex drive completely by the time I'm 20, and laughed about how ridiculous that sounded. But Now I wouldn't doubt it X_X. I really don't want to be that guy.
So my question is as to what can affect ones sex drive. For instance, if there's some kinds of physical or psychological side affects of certain things that might affect ones sex drive, I wouldn't mind knowing, everything and anything that would affect it.
I don't do alcohol or drugs, and regardless of the 1 or 2 depression cycles in the past 2 years that it started to vanish, I had the most sexual gratification before that when I was in an insanely deep depression. I also don't have any STD's.
Thanks (I think)