My name is wayne I am 37 years old and incontinent. I also am an ab for the last 3 years. it is weird I have been in diapers all my life but the an thing is so recent for myself. I am not sure as to why the feelings developed this late in my life since i have always been in diapers for need. I am married my wife does not understand the ab thing ansd is unwilling to participate in that part of my diapers.