But like all things in life, it is not "black and white"
Confession time... I like the idea of "being caught". I also am a conscientious person and realize that nobody in the general public cares to, or wants to, know about or see that I'm wearing a diaper. I don't think I'm the only one that feels this way, but I think the mob mentality (especially on this forum) states that this is wrong, and people suppress their feelings online because of it.
I'd like to have a frank convo about it, and about how people do such a thing without having any detriment to others.
Let me start by saying that other than at a gay club at fetish night (and of course closed-door ABDL events), the general public has never seen me in only a diaper, and never will. I personally enjoy the "possibility" of getting caught, and not the actual exhibition of what I choose to wear for underwear. I would never be like the guys that you see on Youtube, running into grocery stores half naked in only a diaper, or like the dude from AZ that died recently that lived his life as an AB, publicly.
That said, I have encompassed diaper wearing into situations where if someone with a trained eye was paying attention, it would be obvious...
I've gone to the beach (usually Plum Is. State Park here in MA, a desolate, and usually empty beach) with friends for playing volleyball or ultimate frisbee, or just to chill and get a tan, and I'll usually wear. I've always got shorts on, but who doesn't want an upper body tan , so the shirt goes, and I've usually got some sort of waistband sticking up. It's definitely a rush, and definitely fueled by adrenaline (those of you that have bought diapers in person know what I mean), and it doesn't seem to hurt anyone else, so I have no problem doing it.
Nobody ever realizes, and I don't want them to either... It's the idea of being "caught", not the actual act.
My question is... Are there others here that feel this way, but confine your feelings because of the ABDL social status quo, and if not, how do you enjoy doing so without any burden on the general populace?
Also... I'm very happy with myself and the diaper thing, but this is an aspect of it that I've always been conflicted about. Should I relax, and just go with the flow, or should I hole-up and leave the diapers at home? Am I a creeper because I like the idea of being caught?