If you are truely incontinent as I am you really don't mind wearing diapers 24/7. It took several years to accept this but now I can leave home and do about anything I want and not worry about wetting myself. I wear cloth diapers from Adult Cloth Diapers. Their overnight birdseye cloth diapers are the best diapers I have found. Personally wearing diapers sure beats any other kind of underware because they keep my clothes and everything else around me dry.