Have any of you ever found yourself in the awkward position of having a friend or relative who didn't know you were a *B/DL make some AB/DL reference? A couple of examples:
- When I was in high school, I had been dating a guy for a few months when one night we were cuddling and he said "I just want to diaper you and powder you and give you a binky!" and then added "some of which I wouldn't really enjoy." Now, keep in mind that he had no clue at this point that I'm a TB. I just gave him kind of an odd look and laughed, but I thought to myself that somehow he must know I was a TB and was trying to tell me something. Weeks later, I did tell him I was a TB, and although he was accepting and nice about it, and did eventually wind up diapering me and claimed to enjoy it, he said he had never heard of any kind of diaper fetish before and had no memory of making that comment.
- Much more recently, one of my co-workers joined myspace and was very excited about it one day at work and playing around on the site. She kept calling me in my office to tell me about funny things she'd found. At one point she called me and said "oh my god, there's some guy on here wearing diapers!" Apparently she'd stumbled onto a DL's profile. I just laughed and pretended like I thought it was so funny that grown adults would wear diapers as a fetish. She responded by saying something like "you have no idea, people have the weirdest fetishes."
So, any of you have any similar stories? If you were in a situation where a friend who didn't know you liked to wear was making fun of *B/DLs, would you defend the fetish or pretend like you also found it hilarious?