lilshelly
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Okay so as I have said I have cerebral palsy and I can have trouble making it to the bathroom. That is no secret I am fairly open about it. I have been told that I need to make sure that I have the money to buy my supplies so that I don't run out.
The problem with this is when I say something to my fiancee or my family about wearing a diaper longer than I should because I don't want to waste a diaper or not wearing a diaper and taking the chance that I am not going to make it to the bathroom they all try to tell me that I need to take care of myself and wear my diapers. I know my fiancee will argue with me and say that we will find the money to make sure I change as much as I need to but I see the bigger picture when it comes to our finances and so I know what comes and goes out. I know He will make sure things are taken care of but don't know what to do at this point.
I would wear a cheaper diaper but for me the more absorbent the diaper the cheaper the costs. I pay for the diapers out of my own pocket. I was going to try and get insurance to pay for them and they will but I have to reach my deductible and I would have to use the diapers they want me to use which is not cost effective at all, even if the insurance will help after my deductible is met.
The problem with this is when I say something to my fiancee or my family about wearing a diaper longer than I should because I don't want to waste a diaper or not wearing a diaper and taking the chance that I am not going to make it to the bathroom they all try to tell me that I need to take care of myself and wear my diapers. I know my fiancee will argue with me and say that we will find the money to make sure I change as much as I need to but I see the bigger picture when it comes to our finances and so I know what comes and goes out. I know He will make sure things are taken care of but don't know what to do at this point.
I would wear a cheaper diaper but for me the more absorbent the diaper the cheaper the costs. I pay for the diapers out of my own pocket. I was going to try and get insurance to pay for them and they will but I have to reach my deductible and I would have to use the diapers they want me to use which is not cost effective at all, even if the insurance will help after my deductible is met.