Alright people - your boy Baby Jake aka Jake Rabbit aka J.R. Da REALEST... has a girlfriend now.
Now - before you close the thread, know that I am NOT considering "telling her my secret desires and omg I am scared of rejection". This is something along those lines but not quite that.
Anyway... she and I have known each other for years, and we've just begun going out a few weeks ago. Already, we've both gotten pretty close. She knows all about my incontinence, and yeah - she actually knows mostly about my TB/furry side.
But that last part is where I'm beginning to get concerned. Well... not really concerned... just... I'm trying to not get concerned, anyway.
She knows that I "enjoy ageplay and regression", and actually thinks its cute to an extent. She thinks my pacifier(s) are cute, and has even fed me a bottle once. But that's all that's ever happened.
For those things, I am grateful. But I can't help but want more, obviously. I want to be in diapers around her, which she has openly stated would make her feel initially uncomfortable, and yes, I would love for her and I to really engage in some real role play.
The problem is, I'm growing impatient. I'm very excitable, and the fact that she has been so open-minded so far has made me want to keep going. I haven't brought this up but that's because I know she wouldn't really want to be more involved. I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable, and I'm starting to question how far into this she is willing to go before her personal opinion of ME begins to change.
Continuing on, I'm beginning to realize that if she isn't able to somehow satisfy these desires of mine... I may begin to not want to continue dating her. I'm not going to lie - I like her quite a bit. But these desires of ours, diapers, being babied, etc. - are very strong.
And I can't simply say "Oh that's enough for me - she likes my pacifier and my bottle" - because that would be lying, and I am no liar.
So I guess in a nutshell - I want my girlfriend to get more involved in and try role-playing. But I don't want to scare her away. And I am afraid that if she DOESN'T want to do it, EVER! - then I'll begin to feel less attracted to her, and that'll obviously risk us breaking up.
This was a pretty quickly written post, so it's probably all messy and hard to follow. So make due, and ask any questions.
I'm just asking for advice!