dprpantsnpypants
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- Diaper Lover
Haven't posted for a long time... been struggling with marital issues and things are coming to a head now. Here is one aspect of what's going on...
My wife often says that I should ask for what I want. This is very hard for me as I don't take 'no' very well. She says it is because of the shame I feel and associate with my love of diapers. I have started talking to my individual therapist about this but there are so many other things to talk about.... I think my wife is of the opinion that it is something I have to deal with myself, or on an individual basis with my own therapist. But in my mind, it would be good if she could help me with it. What do I mean? My wife could help by being encouraging and supportive when I am wearing a diaper rather than trying to ignore it or worse yet, making some negative comment like 'that's the second time this week you've worn a diaper.' What do people think about this? Do our 'no so willing' partners have some obligation to help us feel more comfortable with our feelings towards diapers, or, is the shame we feel 100% our own problem to deal with by ourselves??
My wife often says that I should ask for what I want. This is very hard for me as I don't take 'no' very well. She says it is because of the shame I feel and associate with my love of diapers. I have started talking to my individual therapist about this but there are so many other things to talk about.... I think my wife is of the opinion that it is something I have to deal with myself, or on an individual basis with my own therapist. But in my mind, it would be good if she could help me with it. What do I mean? My wife could help by being encouraging and supportive when I am wearing a diaper rather than trying to ignore it or worse yet, making some negative comment like 'that's the second time this week you've worn a diaper.' What do people think about this? Do our 'no so willing' partners have some obligation to help us feel more comfortable with our feelings towards diapers, or, is the shame we feel 100% our own problem to deal with by ourselves??