My wife found a diaper order of mine on Amazon so I had to come out and be honest, and it worked out wonderfully well. I did do my research so that I would know what I was talking about, especially the psychological aspects to being AB/DL. I actually explained it in some depth and I remained calm even though I was quite embarrassed. Her response was, did I have enough supplies. She was a wonderful lady. She would buy me plushies, onsies, sippy cups, etc., usually for Christmas and birthdays. Sadly, she died 11 months ago yesterday. I will forever miss her.