MeTaLMaNN1983 said:
I think, cross that, know it's a horrible idea. Don't do it. Get your life together, and go on your own, and you wouldn't have to worry about stuff like that. Who else is going to pay for your diapers. I'm sure you wouldn't want your dad to tell you about his fantasies either.
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Seconded. The point is, OP, you have the potential to have this go so wrong, whereas you likely don’t even stand to profit anything substantial if it does go your way. More than likely, telling him would just be regrettable and awkward.
You are in your mid-twenties. I have to think that moving out is at least a possibility for you, either now or in the not-too-distant future. In any case, I would imagine that you have your own room and some modicum of privacy. There’s no reason that you can’t just purchase diapers in secret, and use them and sneak them into the trash now and again. That’s what I did when I lived with my parents, and as long as you don’t get careless, it’s low-risk enough. Not ideal, of course, but livable.
Speaking of my parents, that brings me to the reason that I always try to discourage people from telling their families. While some members of ADISC have had wonderful experiences coming out as ABDL to their parents, those people definitely seem to be in the minority. Realistically the best you could hope for would probably be that your father awkwardly allows you to buy diapers and use them on your own, which isn’t much better than just keeping the secret to yourself in the first place. What’s also likely, however, is that he
freaks the hell out. When I was a child, every time I tried to explain to my parents what being a DL was, they’d cry, get angry, call me names, punish me, throw out all my diapers, you name it. Having them come into contact with my kink in any way was always an exercise in misery and frustration, and their rejection of this side of me absolutely damaged our relationship in the long term.
My point is, as others have said, it is definitely true that things could work out well for you if you told him. However, my personal experience compels me to advise you to either do it in secret or wait until you are on your own. Either way, good luck, and let us know what you decide to do.