Collars can be fashionable - make a statement about your personal state - and anything else you want to convey in secret or private.
They can also be humiliating to a degree if that is what ones objective is.
Basic black leather fabric metal shinny colored detailing with hasps rings locking latches or hidden closings.
Fantastic bright colors to attract attention to something special about your looks or what you are wearing.
Leashes for an extra special touch when not using reins.
Thin slim design and then heavy metal restraints.
In this day and age of electronics can be wired for lights and security restrictions like a dog barking area restriction.
But I think you are looking for a nice PINK collar with pretty rhinestone detailing and maybe a small bell that
lets the world know a special babyfur is coming into the scene.
My special collar is a 3/8 inch round chrome ring circling the neck with an invisible hex screw in the juncture opposite
of the hinge. Have a chrome dongle ring dangling from it to attach a lead or leash.
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